Posted on January 10, 2010 with No Comments
Finding the right person to date has never been a simple task, sometimes no matter how hard you try there is always a feeling, that there is someone out there just for you that you are not able to find. Finding your right half consumes lots and lots of time and money. Welcome to the world of online dating. You no longer have to search someone special through your friends circle, just log on to a online dating site and you are ready to go to find your better half. It is reverse kind of phenomenon, in which a person understands one’s aspirations and expectations via internet and finally decides to meet in person.
There are many benefits that glorify this concept. Anonymity is the first and foremost benefit that online dating provides you. You may hide your vital information including contacts, address, surnames and so on. This provides you a freedom to know the person better without a fear of being revealed. You may choose to be anonymous if you wish to until you trust a particular chap.
Security, moreover, is other benefit which invites ladies for online dating whole heartedly. No more you need to fear unwanted person to disturb you and interrupt your search for a right match. In case someone gets on you, you may block him and continue with your search. Just logging onto a right dating site can get you access to millions of prospects to go through.
Just a few words regarding your online dating venture:
* Don’t be half hearted and get ready for risk bearing. Not all ventures go 100% successful, hence, it is important to prepare yourself for some let downs. Be sure what you want and get a through research work done before actual dating.
* Spoil yourself. Treat yourself with good and new clothes and get some shopping stuff that relaxes and you and provide better confidence then ever.
* Decide in advance the reasons you are dating for. Be sure, what you want from your partner and does the search satisfy your dating goal. Be sure if you are seeking for nice companionship or you are seeking for a life partner or so.
* Boost up your confidence before going for any sorts of date. Attending social functions and getting along with your friends would surely enhance a positive aura around you.
* Decide the meeting place in advance. Be sure, the place to be public enough. Although night clubs prove to be a bad idea for meeting for first time. Obviously you would not like to scream into ears to get your views conveyed to your partner. Choose a place like a coffee shop that proves to be ideal to talk to.
* Most importantly, enjoyment is the key for dating. After all this is the reason you are dating for.
Posted on January 4, 2010 with No Comments
Ever meet a woman, who at first you think is just another pretty face, but the more you get to know her and the more time you spend with her the more that initial attraction quickly grew into an intense affection as you became friends?
Then as you find yourself spending even more time with her, you started to become more and more insecure? Sound familiar?
We’ve all been there. You are not alone.
You were just dying to know if she felt the same way about you as you did about her – yet you were still clearly in the dreaded friend zone.
At times you may have tried to illicit a reaction out of her when you told her how important she was to you to no avail.
She would occasionally give you hug or hold your hand, but not in the way you want her too. She was still at the end of the day – your friend.
The more insecure you felt about your feelings, the more scared you became of making a move on her and potentially messing up the friendship. Then you realized the only way she would ever know your “true” feelings was to sit her down and tell her.
Then shortly after telling her you got the inevitable rejection. “Thanks, that was really sweet…but I wouldn’t want to mess up our great friendship, I have to get going…I’ll talk to you later” This type of feeling dump is an instant turn off with most women!
Maybe she was just afraid of sharing her true feelings as well? The thought “Maybe I wasn’t clear enough runs through your head?”
You had to be with her. To make sure she really understood your feelings you painstakingly wrote her a poem really digging deep and pulling out all your feelings for her unfiltered.
Then shockingly she starts to avoid you and doesn’t return your calls or texts. If you’re lucky, after a few weeks or a month she may have tried to reconnect your friendship if you can get over her.
Knowledge is power. If you knew what I’ve been teaching you already, you never would have gone about turning your friend into a partner in such a pussy way, not to mention sabotage a great friendship.
If a woman isn’t already attracted to you, any traditional courting efforts (flowers, poems, expensive dinners, etc) will only PUSH her further from you.
Doing “nice guy” stuff for a woman that isn’t attracted to you only makes the situation worse. I know it sucks, but there is a right and a wrong way of attracting woman you’re interested in. This story is how you turn off women instantly. Keep the feelings to yourself or don’t let it get to that point! Make a move early on and stay out of the friend zone entirely.
How To Not Turn Off Women Instantly
• Keep things light
• No flowers
• No chocolates
• No poems
• No love songs
• No “we need to talk” type conversations
• Don’t call or text her 7 times a day
• Don’t ask if she likes you
Learn how to make her attracted to you from the beginning. Learn how to read her positive signals. Learn to read her body language. Learn how to communicate with women on a level that shows you “get it.” Stay tuned and I will teach you.
-Gary
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Posted on January 4, 2010 with No Comments
Ever meet a woman, who at first you think is just another pretty face, but the more you get to know her and the more time you spend with her the more that initial attraction quickly grew into an intense affection as you became friends?
Then as you find yourself spending even more time with her, you started to become more and more insecure? Sound familiar?
We’ve all been there. You are not alone.
You were just dying to know if she felt the same way about you as you did about her – yet you were still clearly in the dreaded friend zone.
At times you may have tried to illicit a reaction out of her when you told her how important she was to you to no avail.
She would occasionally give you hug or hold your hand, but not in the way you want her too. She was still at the end of the day – your friend.
The more insecure you felt about your feelings, the more scared you became of making a move on her and potentially messing up the friendship. Then you realized the only way she would ever know your “true” feelings was to sit her down and tell her.
Then shortly after telling her you got the inevitable rejection. “Thanks, that was really sweet…but I wouldn’t want to mess up our great friendship, I have to get going…I’ll talk to you later” This type of feeling dump is an instant turn off with most women!
Maybe she was just afraid of sharing her true feelings as well? The thought “Maybe I wasn’t clear enough runs through your head?”
You had to be with her. To make sure she really understood your feelings you painstakingly wrote her a poem really digging deep and pulling out all your feelings for her unfiltered.
Then shockingly she starts to avoid you and doesn’t return your calls or texts. If you’re lucky, after a few weeks or a month she may have tried to reconnect your friendship if you can get over her.
Knowledge is power. If you knew what I’ve been teaching you already, you never would have gone about turning your friend into a partner in such a pussy way, not to mention sabotage a great friendship.
If a woman isn’t already attracted to you, any traditional courting efforts (flowers, poems, expensive dinners, etc) will only PUSH her further from you.
Doing “nice guy” stuff for a woman that isn’t attracted to you only makes the situation worse. I know it sucks, but there is a right and a wrong way of attracting woman you’re interested in. This story is how you turn off women instantly. Keep the feelings to yourself or don’t let it get to that point! Make a move early on and stay out of the friend zone entirely.
How To Not Turn Off Women Instantly
• Keep things light
• No flowers
• No chocolates
• No poems
• No love songs
• No “we need to talk” type conversations
• Don’t call or text her 7 times a day
• Don’t ask if she likes you
Learn how to make her attracted to you from the beginning. Learn how to read her positive signals. Learn to read her body language. Learn how to communicate with women on a level that shows you “get it.” Stay tuned and I will teach you.
-Gary
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