The majority of all communication is not through spoken word. It’s from body language. Understanding a woman’s body language will quickly let you know whether or not she’s interested in you.
It shouldn’t take you more than five minutes to figure out whether or not you’re interested in a woman. You have to realize that you are in the same attraction process and time frame as women, when it comes to figuring out if attraction is there or not. Women follow the same attraction factors as we do.
Ok, so verbal communication isn’t as important as body language, but it is still important not to babble on about your pet gerbils for ten minutes. The content of your conversation should grow more pertinent as time goes on, so you should try to keep it interesting from the start.
Make sure your body language also reflects interest. Keep an optimistic and confident posture. Make sure that you position yourself for easy eye contact with your feet facing in her direction. Make sure it’s quite clear you’re interested in more than just finding out what time it is.
Watch how her eyes move. If her eyes move from yours, to your mouth back to your eyes back to your mouth, or your body she’s interested! Avoid compulsive behaviors, lean back, relax and keep your cool.
If her eyes stay firmly focused on yours without ever straying past the nose line – bad news, she’s probably not interested.
Here are a few gestures that will help you understand a woman’s body language
Mirroring – If she copies or mirrors your body language then she is flirting with you. This can happen consciously (if she knows it’s a way to flirt) or subconsciously. Next time your out observe how couples often mirror each other’s body language. If you know a girl is interested in you test it out on her. Lean forward a little bit (or back) and watch if she does the same. Once you know what’s going on its fun to see it in action – really cool.
Strong Eye Contact – A big part of flirting is using eye contact. If she holds eye contact with you for more than a few seconds at a time then it’s very likely that she’s interested.
The Eyebrow Pop – It happens fast. When you approach a woman watch her eyebrows. If they give a lift as you approach and fall then that is a great signal that she is interested.
Never single out just one body language gesture to determine if a woman is interested in you. You have to look at the position and actions of the body as a whole. If her arms are crossed and she has a snarl on her face, but she is holding strong eye contact it’s probably more likely she wants to kill you than have sex with you. Use common sense when interpreting body language signals too.
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Dating, romance and courtship are traditionally considered the preserve of the young, but with growing numbers of ‘silver surfers’ (senior citizens using the Internet), it is becoming obvious that one doesn’t have to be a spring chicken to appreciate the joys of spring!
Here in the western world we are obsessed with youth. Our media is saturated with images of the young, beautiful and happy selling us products on the back of the promise that we will become like them if we should only buy this face cream or that car or this insurance policy.
The fantastic and circular equation this fallacy is based on seems to be that youth=beauty=success=desirability=love=happiness=youth etc.
One only has to look at our icons of romance to see the indelible link between youth and romance. In fact, two of our most famous romantic icons, Juliet and Pocahontas (as lauded by Peggy Lee in the classic love song ‘Fever’) were so young at the time of embarking on their turbulent romances that they would not, today, be considered of legal age.
In amongst all this, ne could easily be left with the impression that beyond the age of thirty, all hope for romance is lost.
Happily this is not so! Our senior citizens are getting involved in the dating game in their droves. Actually in all probability they have been doing it for years but the older generation, certainly in Britain, are renowned for their discretion almost to the point of coyness.
Luckily for social analysts and writers like myself, a convergence of recent phenomena makes it possible to now gain a much fuller impression of just what our seniors are getting up to!
Recent years have seen an explosion in the number of ‘silver surfers’, that is to say people of retirement age or above who are web literate to a greater or lesser extent and are making regular use of the Internet.
The same period has seen a rapid growth in the online dating industry. The result of these two phenomena is that we can see quite plainly, looking at the figures, that it’s definitely not just the young folks who are looking for love online.
A recent study carried out by my company revealed over 14,000 active dating site users over the age of 65 compared to an average age group membership of just over 25,000.
With numbers like this it’s understandable that seniors are regarded as an important demographic by us in the online dating industry and hardly surprising that classes in Internet dating are springing up at places like the Pleasant Hill Senior Centre in Contra Costa, California.
With a population that is increasingly ageing as the baby boom generation reach their 60s and take a greater knowledge and awareness of current and developing technologies into their later years, it can only be expected that this phenomenon will increase.
And so it should be! Why should the spring chickens get a monopoly on the joys of spring?