Archive for August, 2009
Posted on August 30, 2009 with No Comments
What they say is true, nice guys always finish last. The cocky, humorous, jackass will of course never have a problem with picking up women. Why is this true?
Here are three ways being a “nice guy” will kill your chances of attracting women.
1. You appear boring. Nice guys are usually way too quiet, spineless, and flat out wimps. They come across as weak and lacking confidence – this is doom when trying to attract women. You may be the shoulder to cry on, but you will never get ass if you don’t change your ways.
2. You’re always available. Nice guys will do whatever it takes when you need it to make you happy at any whim. Women are not attracted to things that are very available. Why do women love jewelry? Because it’s hard to acquire. Think of yourself the same way. Women are attracted to men who are not always readily available.
3. You’re awkward. Nice guys tend to not be described as “smooth talkers.” They tend to be way too socially awkward for women to even be remotely interested in them. They are very self-conscious, avoid risk taking, and play it way too safe for women to find attractive.
Stop being so nice, stop seeking female approval, stop being the shoulder to cry on.
-Gary
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Why You Should Avoid Being A “Nice Guy” is a post from: The Geeks Guide To Dating Blog
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Posted on August 27, 2009 with No Comments
Dating and meeting women for shy men can be quite a harrowing experience. You may feel like you will never find a date while your friends whip through girlfriend after girlfriend.
Shy guys tend to enjoy explaining to everyone how amazingly nice they really are and how well they would care for a girl if they had one. In the game of dating, overly nice guys usually finish dead last.
First of all stop saying that you’re shy and nice all the time. It makes you look like a wimp. Women aren’t going to wait for you to stop being shy and make the first move, from approaching to the first kiss. If you can’t get over your shyness you may never get a long term girlfriend.
Being shy and un-assertive also makes you appear more feminine and less masculine – not good. It’s generally acceptable for a woman to get away with being shy, but it unfortunately doesn’t work for guys when it comes to attracting high quality women. If she can feel like she can walk all over you there will be no attraction.
No one is going to do the approaching women, talking to women, and making first moves for you. You’re going to have to crack the shell man. It makes you look weak. To attract women, you need to appear dominant and strong. Not just physically, I mean mentally, socially, and emotionally. A woman needs to know she can count on you and a shy guy doesn’t project that.
-Gary
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Why Shy Guys Can’t Get Girls is a post from: The Geeks Guide To Dating Blog
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- Why You Should Avoid Being A “Nice Guy”
- How To Dismantle Approach Anxiety
- Talking To New Women
Posted on August 26, 2009 with No Comments
This is your final, ninth part of "9 Simple Rules For Dating Russian Women".
Rule #8 was to be honest.
With all the freedom Internet dating brings, you must always remember it is a real relationship, not just writing letters to beautiful women.
How hard it might be sometimes, you have to be absolutely honest with the wonderful women you’ll come in touch with – they will appreciate your honesty much more than a smooth talk.
And now it is time for the final and very short Rule #9…
Rule #9. Don’t procrastinate – do it!
Many men browse catalogues of agencies but never write to anyone. Others, after extensive thoughts, decide "to give it a try", and write to a couple of girls – nothing comes out of it, and then they think, "Oh, it just does not work".
No one learnt to ride a bicycle without falling a few times.
But anyone can learn to ride a bicycle!
The same with meeting people over the Internet. For some people it comes easy, for others it takes longer.
But if you persist, you WILL succeed.
You only fail when you stop trying!
Learn as much as you can beforehand; you have already done very well by reading this whole email course – add to it a couple of quality e-books, and you will outperform 90% of other men!
Then, just go and do it!
Thousands people did it before you, are doing it now, and will be doing it in the future.
You can do it, too!
This Was The Last One Of
"9 Simple Rules For Dating Russian Women"
I hope you have found this information useful.
Good luck and I am looking forward to receiving your wedding photo!
With warmest regards,
Elena Petrova
