Posted on July 28, 2009 with No Comments
The better you look, the more confident you will feel. This will help you adopt a more positive attitude about each day if you feel good about what you’re stepping into in the morning. Here are five easy to implement tips on how to improve your style.
1. Heed the advice of the people who really know style. Don’t let your style be influenced by your mom, dad, girl your dating, or wife unless they really know what they’re talking about. Read the advice of the experts on web sites such as askmen.com, GQ, mens fashion on about.com then pick and choose what you like so you own it. The cool thing about doing this is that no matter what you choose, you can’t go wrong (in most cases see #2).
2. Make sure that the new clothes you buy (based on the looks you found in the above websites) that you feel comfortable wearing them and it will still suit your personality. Obviously, just because an anorexic model is wearing something doesn’t mean you should. You wouldn’t want to look like this guy, common sense still has to apply here. Stick to the classics when in doubt.
3. Style is about more than what you wear. Put the same set of clothes on a guy who is in shape and the same set on a guy who has a rounded back, button busting gut, and a concave chest, no matter how you slice it the guy who is in shape will look better. Getting in shape = better looking clothing fit. Make it yours – roll up the sleeves, use a cool belt, un-do a few buttons, etc.
4. A big part of your style is how you handle yourself and your day to day attitude. It’s not just about your clothing. Do you bitch to your co-workers and friends all day about your personal life frustrations? Or, do you do your job or hang out, and have fun with it? Who do you think will appear as the cooler guy? The one who keeps his head…or the one who loses it every 30 minutes and acts like a little bitch?
5. Get a decent pair of shoes, it is often the first thing a woman looks at to figure out your financial status. Women pay attention to the details! This is the one part of your outfit you don’t want to be cheap with.
Action Plan: Go to linked sites, find one new trendy outfit, buy it, and make it yours.
-Gary
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Posted on July 24, 2009 with No Comments
When most guys think about approaching a woman they tend to make nervous movements, speak rapidly, freeze up, or explode into a pile of nerves leading to rejection. Usually, the hotter the girl the higher the nervous factor. There are a few simple and easy ways to dismantle your approach anxiety.
A good way to dismantle this type of thinking is to remember that on the inside whether she’s hot, average, or ugly, fat, skinny, etc we’re all the same anatomically (mostly). Another way to shed some anxiety is to immediately look for her flaws to help you realize she isn’t perfect either. See my previous entry Chop Down The Pedestal for more on this subject.
This will help you deal with being rejected as not every woman you talk too is going to like you, no matter what you do. It will help reduce how much you feel like you lost or failed. Remember, she isn’t any more valuable than YOU are, so if she gave you the cold shoulder, it’s her loss.
You have to come from a place of feeling like you are the most important person in your world. Anyone else who is allowed into your world should feel privileged to know you. Also, the more you do it, the less you will feel like you have lost over time. Turn approaching women into a game, or think of it a social experiment until you get good at it, detach yourself from any negative emotions you may have experienced before from rejection.
Action Plan: Go to a public place like a mall and approach 10 women. We’re not trying to get phone numbers, just getting comfortable speaking to random women and coming up to them cold. This is what you do make eye contact and say “hey, you are absolutely gorgeous and I had to stop you to tell you…<she replies> I have to get going, unfortunately tight on time” wave and leave. Very simple, just give a compliment and have some fun with it. Do it and let me know how it goes.
-Gary
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Posted on July 21, 2009 with No Comments
Here are some common things women have told me they dread and can’t stand when guys say them, enjoy.
1. On The First Bunch Of Dates: “We this..” “We that…” “We should..”
When you start saying things like “Oh, we should go to that sushi place….” or “I’ll take you out on my boat next time” or “We’ll definitely do that!” on the first or second date it reveals that you are very into her, she has you by the cajones and the fun is over. Don’t let her know she has won you over so easily. You don’t want to be that jackass who says he would love to put a ring on her finger after the first date.
2. “How many guys have you had sex with?”
If you want to start a budding relationship off with oodles of tension, this is how you do it. I mean, honestly do you really want to know? You’re with her and that’s all that matters. It shows a big lack of confidence by having to ask this question in the early stages.
3. “I left you a message but you didn’t call me..whats up with that?”
Never let a woman know in the early stages of dating that her not calling you back bothers you. If you do, it shows again, you are way too into her too early and the game is over. Be busy, don’t give a crap if she doesn’t call you back, don’t give it any thought and most important don’t speak about it. The rules of course change when it comes to longer lasting relationships.
4. “So….Do you like me?”
If you want crank her attraction dial down into the negatives this is the question to ask. Of course she likes you, she’s with you isn’t she?
5. “What do you want to do?”
Be a leader, have a plan, and take charge. It’s very important in the early stages that you show that you in fact know how to be a man.
6. “Is it ok if I kiss you?”
No talking – just do it.
-Gary
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